Here are some websites you should check out:

NCAA Eligibility & Recruiting Policies:
https://web1.ncaa.org/eligibilitycenter/common/
http://www2.ncaa.org/portal/legislation_and_governance/eligibility_and_recruiting/

NCAA Schools that have soccer (by division - also has direct links schools and conferences):
http://web1.ncaa.org/onlineDir/exec/sponsorship?sortOrder=0&division=1&sport=MSO
http://web1.ncaa.org/onlineDir/exec/sponsorship?sortOrder=0&division=2&sport=MSO
http://web1.ncaa.org/onlineDir/exec/sponsorship?sortOrder=0&division=3&sport=MSO

General info on recruiting and other related topics:
http://www.brucebrownlee.com/college/college_soccer.html
http://www.ncaa.org/library/general/cbsa/2007-08/2007-08_cbsa.pdf
http://www.varsityedge.com/
http://www.collegesportsscholarships.com/soccer.htm


NAIA Programs:
http://naia.cstv.com/sports/m-soccer/naia-m-soccer-body.html
http://graphics.fansonly.com/schools/naia/member-services/championships/Qualifcation_Plans/qual_plans_pdf/MensSoccerQP.pdf

Jr. College Programs:
http://www.njcaa.org/